What are Life Skills?

Relationships

We create and implement strategies for:

Communication skills: navigating conflict, phone and email etiquette, and conversation skills

Relationships skills: romantic relationships, sexual health, and strategies for maintaining friendships

Social Skills: reading body language and social cues, asking for help or directions, and who to trust

Why is this important?

Cultivating strong and healthy social connections allows Autistic people to unmask, which can reduce anxiety and depression. It also helps prevent them from being taken advantage of, learn who should be trusted, having opportunities to get feedback on social interactions, and understanding what is appropriate for the situation. Strong, healthy relationships alsa llow people with ADHD to have a safety net of people who can be supportive of wise decisions, as those with ADHD can be impulsive and make decisions that are not in their best interest as a result of social pressure.

Self Care

Emotional

We review how to identify and manage stress, express spirituality, if desired, promote healthy emotional awareness, and learn self-advocacy skills.

Physical

This includes managing medical care and medications, hygiene and grooming, nutrition, exercise, and lifestyle management

Safety skills

Safety skills support both physical and emotional health. It is important to identify common risks and how to avoid them, learn how to practice safety (locking doors, turning off the stove, following safety signs), and identify appropriate responses to emergencies.

The Nitty Gritty of Life

Sometimes managing life is complicated. It can be extremely complicated for people who are neurodivergent. We help create strategies that are tailored for you in order to:

Navigate the grocery store, doctor’s office, and other frequently visited locations

Wash, organize, and buy clothing

Shop for groceries and other items

Take care of a home by cleaning, cooking, shopping, and performing other chores

Manage money through budgeting, financial planning, bank accounts, and credit cards and manage impulsivity related to money

Participate in leisure, hobby, and recreational activities

Travel on various forms of transportation, read a map and road signs and plan a trip

Find information via the internet, newspapers, books, and other sources

Executive Function

There are many aspects of executive functioning, which you can read about here, but at its most basic level, this skill allows you to adapt, prioritize, transition, plan, and manage time. Tasks such as making decisions, adopting flexible thinking, transitioning between skills, planning the day, creating a to-do list, and prioritizing tasks, also fall under the executive function umbrella.

Executive function is often impacted in people who are neurodivergent. People with ADHD often have "time blindness", which allows them to get into a flow state of hyperfocus, but also makes it more difficult to plan how long things should take. The singular focus of Autistic people allows for out-of-the-box problem-solving in their area of special interest, but can also lead to difficulty with flexible thinking.

Other aspects we address are:

Task management

Time management

Organization strategies

Wise Decision-Making

Job Skills

Success with employment is a key area in enabling independent living. We review and give strategies for the process of identifying jobs that may fit your interests and talents, obtaining training, searching for a job, and interviewing. We also teach how to communicate with a manager and co-workers, how to understand the unspoken demands of your employer, and how to advocate for yourself appropriately. While we are not career or job coaches, we assist with self-understanding and learning the process skills and soft skills to be successful.

Why Focus on Life Skills?

People with ADHD and Autism have a unique neurobiology that doesn't fit naturally in our world. And thank goodness! A large number of explorers, inventors, great athletes, and entrepreneurs are a little "neurospicy"!

However, this same neurobiological wiring often leads to difficulty with employment, financial stability, mental health, physical health, and in relationships. When their unique traits are harnessed and directed using a multimodal approach, it can significantly reduce negative outcomes and lead to startlingly high achievements.

Employment & Financial Impact

• 60% of adults with ADHD have lost or changed a job due to ADHD symptoms 
• Estimated $4,336 in lost productivity per employee with ADHD 
• juvenile US prison population meets criteria for an ADHD diagnosis 
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• Adults with ASD had 4.4 more average outpatient visits per year than non-autistic people, contributing to higher healthcare costs 
• Over $10,000 per year in lost wages from unemployment or underemployment for adults with ASD 
• 60-70% of adults with ADHD experience significant impairments in executive functioning that negatively impact their employment and workplace performance 
• Adults with ADHD work 22 fewer days per year on average compared to non-ADHD adults 
• In ADHD employees, there is a 4-5% reductions in work productivity and increased absenteeism 

Mental Health & Relationship Impact

• 50% of autistic people experience an addiction during their lifetime 
• Over 70% of autistic people experience anxiety and depression 
• 6x the rate of suicidal ideation for autistic youth without an intellectual disability 
• 24.3% of autistic youth have attempted suicide 
• Adults with ADHD are 5x more likely to have attempted suicide 
• 47.1% of adults with ADHD have anxiety 
• 38.3% of adults with ADHD had a mood disorder 
• 15.2% of adults with ADHD had a substance use disorder 
• 2x the divorce rate for adults with ADHD 
• 2x the divorce rate for adults with ADHD 

Physical health Impact

• 4x higher rate of sleep disorders in people with ADHD 
• 4.7x higher rate of alcohol-related liver disease in people with ADHD 
• 3x higher rate of fatty liver disease in people with ADHD 
• 2-8x more likely than young adults without ADHD to have had a collision, citation, or suspended license 
• 3x higher rate of COPD in people with ADHD 
• 2.6x higher rate of obesity in people with ADHD 

ADHD Role Models

Sir Richard Branson - Founder of Virgin Inc.

Ingvar Kamprad - Founder of Ikea

Bill Gates - Founder of Microsoft

David Neeleman - Founder of JetBlue

Paul Orfalea - Founder of Kinkos/FedEx

Walt Disney - Founder of Disney

Justin Timberlake - Singer and actor

Simone Biles - Olympic gymnast

Jim Carrey - Actor and comedian

Mark Ruffalo - Actor

Michael Jordan - Former NBA player

Michael Phelps - Olympic swimmer

Will Smith - Actor

Solange Knowles - Singer-songwriter

Emma Watson - Actress

Channing Tatum - Actor

Jamie Oliver - Chef and TV personality

Ty Pennington - TV host and carpenter

Paris Hilton - Socialite and media personality

Pete Rose - Former baseball player

Howie Mandel - Comedian and TV host

Adam Levine - Musician

Karina Smirnoff - Professional dancer

Terry Bradshaw - Former NFL player and
TV personality

Lisa Ling - Journalist and TV host

Justin Trudeau - Prime Minister of Canada

Michelle Rodriguez - Actress

Zooey Deschanel - Actress

Rory Bremner - Comedian and impressionist

James Carville - Political commentator

Will.i.am - Musician (Black Eyed Peas)

Ryan Gosling - Actor

Michael Weatherly - Actor

Pete Davidson - Comedian and actor

Justin Paul - Composer and songwriter

Blake Anderson - Actor and comedian

Brian Baumgartner - Actor (The Office)

Chris Rock - Comedian and actor

Jason Mraz - Musician

Autistic Role Models

Lionel Messi - soccer player

Eminem - Rapper

Sia - Singer

Wentworth Miller - Actor

Jerry Seinfeld - Comedian

Temple Grandin - Author and autism advocate

Dan Aykroyd - Actor and comedian

Daryl Hannah - Actress

Susan Boyle - Singer

Courtney Love - Musician and actress

Satoshi Tajiri - Creator of Pokémon

Anthony Hopkins - Actor

Chris Packham - Naturalist and TV presenter

Heather Kuzmich - Model and contestant on "America's Next Top Model"

Paddy Considine - Actor and filmmaker

Clay Marzo - Professional surfer

Gary Numan - Musician

Vernon L. Smith - Nobel laureate in economics

Craig Nicholls - Musician (The Vines)

Luke Jackson - Author and autism advocate

John Elder Robison - Author and autism advocate

Leslie Lemke - Pianist

Tim Ellis - Magician

Jerry Newport - Author and motivational speaker

Daniel Tammet - Author and mathematical savant

Derek Paravicini - Musician and savant

James Durbin - Singer and finalist on "American Idol"

Ari Ne'eman - Autism rights advocate

Alex Plank - Founder of Wrong Planet, an online autism community

Greta Thunberg - Environmental activist

Tim Burton - Filmmaker

Chris Benoit - Former professional wrestler

Matt Savage - Jazz pianist and composer

Jonathan Chase - Actor

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