Welcome to The Life Skills Spot!
We help people with ADHD and Autism live their best lives…
by learning strategies that work!
We Know What Neurodivergent Brains Need!
holistic perspective considers a person, the activity, and the environment
fix underlying issues instead of just learning to cope
licensed professional with required education and oversight ensures evidence-based, high-quality approaches… and can be reimbursed by insurance
strengths-based and solution-focused
training in neuroanatomy, physiology, cognition, and human development
our practice is created for neurodivergent brains with robust wrap-around services, evening and weekend availability, and different support levels
And we help YOU build a foundation for an amazing life!
Meet Your Therapist!
Hi there! I’m Maggie!
If you’re here because the world just doesn’t seem to fit right, you’re in the right place. I was introduced to Occupational Therapy over 20 years ago as a client to learn how to support my sensory system in a world that was too loud, bright, fast, tight, smelly, and uncomfortable. I know the relief of learning how to appreciate my brain and body for what they are and being able to navigate the world in a way that works for me.
But beyond my lived experience, I have the professional skills to help you lean into who you are and how you work so you can have a life that celebrates your unique gifts and abilities. I have a decade and a half of training as an Occupational Therapist, specializing in cognition, sensory needs, and lifestyle design for neurodivergent people. I use a nature-informed approach, which means that we will work with natural rhythms, work outdoors when possible, and find ways to incorporate the calming and regulating aspects of nature into your life and our sessions. Together we can build your skills, adapt your environment, and adjust your life to fit you exactly the way you are.
Education & Certifications
MSOT in Occupational Therapy from Boston University
Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (ASDCS)
ADHD-Certified Rehabilitation Services Provider (ADHD-RSP)
Certificate in Systems and Performance Management from Georgetown University
Board-Certified in Occupational Therapy by NBCOT
Licensed to practice Occupational Therapy in DC, MD, and VA
Member of the Safe Space Alliance
Member of Children and Adults with ADHD (CHADD)
Member of Washington DC Occupational Therapy Association
What Is Neurodivergence?
What is Neurodiversity?
What Is Neurodivergence? What is Neurodiversity?
Neurodiversity refers to the full array of ways that human beings can be wired. Like biodiversity, neurodiversity is essential for survival.
Neurodivergence refers to a brain and body's way of processing information that significantly differs from typical. While neurodivergences can be acquired, we specialize in genetic neurodivergences such as ADHD, Autism, and High Sensitivity.
ADHD
People with ADHD can bring vibrance, creativity, enthusiasm, and passion to a team. They can be the creative butterflies, bringing color and magic. They can get surprising amounts done in a short amount of time and thrive under pressure.
Autism
People who are autistic are often highly capable problem-solvers. If they are given the pieces, they will put together the puzzle. They can assimilate vast amounts of information and put it together in a systematic and cohesive way.
Highly Sensitive
Highly sensitive people have increased sensory and emotional sensitivity, strong intuition and empathy, and catch subtleties quickly. They can notice small but important aspects of projects and consider the implications of a complicated decision.
What are Life Skills?
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We create and implement strategies for:
Communication skills: navigating conflict, phone and email etiquette, and conversation skills
Relationships skills: romantic relationships, sexual health, and strategies for maintaining friendships
Social Skills: reading body language and social cues, asking for help or directions, and who to trust
Why is this important?
Cultivating strong and healthy social connections allows Autistic people to unmask, which can reduce anxiety and depression. It also helps prevent them from being taken advantage of, learn who should be trusted, having opportunities to get feedback on social interactions, and understanding what is appropriate for the situation. Strong, healthy relationships alsa llow people with ADHD to have a safety net of people who can be supportive of wise decisions, as those with ADHD can be impulsive and make decisions that are not in their best interest as a result of social pressure.
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Emotional
We review how to identify and manage stress, express spirituality, if desired, promote healthy emotional awareness, and learn self-advocacy skills.
Physical
This includes managing medical care and medications, hygiene and grooming, nutrition, exercise, and lifestyle management
Safety skills
Safety skills support both physical and emotional health. It is important to identify common risks and how to avoid them, learn how to practice safety (locking doors, turning off the stove, following safety signs), and identify appropriate responses to emergencies.
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Sometimes managing life is complicated. It can be extremely complicated for people who are neurodivergent. We help create strategies that are tailored for you in order to:
Navigate the grocery store, doctor’s office, and other frequently visited locations
Wash, organize, and buy clothing
Shop for groceries and other items
Take care of a home by cleaning, cooking, shopping, and performing other chores
Manage money through budgeting, financial planning, bank accounts, and credit cards and manage impulsivity related to money
Participate in leisure, hobby, and recreational activities
Travel on various forms of transportation, read a map and road signs and plan a trip
Find information via the internet, newspapers, books, and other sources
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There are many aspects of executive functioning, which you can read about here, but at its most basic level, this skill allows you to adapt, prioritize, transition, plan, and manage time. Tasks such as making decisions, adopting flexible thinking, transitioning between skills, planning the day, creating a to-do list, and prioritizing tasks, also fall under the executive function umbrella.
Executive function is often impacted in people who are neurodivergent. People with ADHD often have "time blindness", which allows them to get into a flow state of hyperfocus, but also makes it more difficult to plan how long things should take. The singular focus of Autistic people allows for out-of-the-box problem-solving in their area of special interest, but can also lead to difficulty with flexible thinking.
Other aspects we address are:
Task management
Time management
Organization strategies
Wise Decision-Making
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Success with employment is a key area in enabling independent living. We review and give strategies for the process of identifying jobs that may fit your interests and talents, obtaining training, searching for a job, and interviewing. We also teach how to communicate with a manager and co-workers, how to understand the unspoken demands of your employer, and how to advocate for yourself appropriately. While we are not career or job coaches, we assist with self-understanding and learning the process skills and soft skills to be successful.
Why Focus on Life Skills?
People with ADHD and Autism have a unique neurobiology that doesn't fit naturally in our world. And thank goodness! A large number of explorers, inventors, great athletes, and entrepreneurs are a little "neurospicy"!
However, this same neurobiological wiring often leads to difficulty with employment, financial stability, mental health, physical health, and in relationships. When their unique traits are harnessed and directed using a multimodal approach, it can significantly reduce negative outcomes and lead to startlingly high achievements.
Employment & Financial Impact
60% of adults with ADHD have lost or changed a job due to ADHD symptoms
Estimated $4,336 in lost productivity per employee with ADHD
40-60% unemployment rate for people with autism and no intellectual disability
an estimated 40% of the adult US prison population and up to 60% of the juvenile US prison population meets criteria for an ADHD diagnosis
adults with ASD had 4.4 more average outpatient visits per year than non-autistic people, contributing to higher healthcare costs
over $10,000 per year in lost wages from unemployment or underemployment for adults with ASD
60-70% of adults with ADHD experience significant impairments in executive functioning that negatively impact their employment and workplace performance
Adults with ADHD work 22 fewer days per year on average compared to non-ADHD adults
In ADHD employees, there is a 4-5% reductions in work productivity and increased absenteeism
60% of adults with ADHD have lost or changed a job due to ADHD symptoms Estimated $4,336 in lost productivity per employee with ADHD 40-60% unemployment rate for people with autism and no intellectual disability an estimated 40% of the adult US prison population and up to 60% of the juvenile US prison population meets criteria for an ADHD diagnosis adults with ASD had 4.4 more average outpatient visits per year than non-autistic people, contributing to higher healthcare costs over $10,000 per year in lost wages from unemployment or underemployment for adults with ASD 60-70% of adults with ADHD experience significant impairments in executive functioning that negatively impact their employment and workplace performance Adults with ADHD work 22 fewer days per year on average compared to non-ADHD adults In ADHD employees, there is a 4-5% reductions in work productivity and increased absenteeism
Mental Health & Relationship Impact
50% of autistic people experience an addiction during their lifetime
over 70% of autistic people experience anxiety and depression
6x the rate of suicidal ideation for autistic youth without an intellectual disability
24.3% of autistic youth have attempted suicide
Adults with ADHD are 5x more likely to have attempted suicide
47.1% of adults with ADHD have anxiety
38.3% of adults with ADHD had a mood disorder
15.2% of adults with ADHD had a substance use disorder
2x the divorce rate for adults with ADHD
2x the divorce rate for adults with ADHD
50% of autistic people experience an addiction during their lifetime over 70% of autistic people experience anxiety and depression 6x the rate of suicidal ideation for autistic youth without an intellectual disability 24.3% of autistic youth have attempted suicide Adults with ADHD are 5x more likely to have attempted suicide 47.1% of adults with ADHD have anxiety 38.3% of adults with ADHD had a mood disorder 15.2% of adults with ADHD had a substance use disorder 2x the divorce rate for adults with ADHD 2x the divorce rate for adults with ADHD
Physical health Impact
4x higher rate of sleep disorders in people with ADHD
4.7x higher rate of alcohol-related liver disease in people with ADHD
3x higher rate of fatty liver disease in people with ADHD
2-8x more likely than young adults without ADHD to have had a collision, citation, or suspended license
3x higher rate of COPD in people with ADHD
2.6x higher rate of obesity in people with ADHD
4x higher rate of sleep disorders in people with ADHD 4.7x higher rate of alcohol-related liver disease in people with ADHD 3x higher rate of fatty liver disease in people with ADHD 2-8x more likely than young adults without ADHD to have had a collision, citation, or suspended license 3x higher rate of COPD in people with ADHD 2.6x higher rate of obesity in people with ADHD
ADHD Role Models
Sir Richard Branson - Founder of Virgin Inc.
Ingvar Kamprad - Founder of Ikea
Bill Gates - Founder of Microsoft
David Neeleman - Founder of JetBlue
Paul Orfalea - Founder of Kinkos/FedEx
Walt Disney - Founder of Disney
Justin Timberlake - Singer and actor
Simone Biles - Olympic gymnast
Jim Carrey - Actor and comedian
Mark Ruffalo - Actor
Michael Jordan - Former NBA player
Michael Phelps - Olympic swimmer
Will Smith - Actor
Solange Knowles - Singer-songwriter
Emma Watson - Actress
Channing Tatum - Actor
Jamie Oliver - Chef and TV personality
Ty Pennington - TV host and carpenter
Paris Hilton - Socialite and media personality
Pete Rose - Former baseball player
Howie Mandel - Comedian and TV host
Adam Levine - Musician
Karina Smirnoff - Professional dancer
Terry Bradshaw - Former NFL player and TV personality
Lisa Ling - Journalist and TV host
Justin Trudeau - Prime Minister of Canada
Michelle Rodriguez - Actress
Zooey Deschanel - Actress
Rory Bremner - Comedian and impressionist
James Carville - Political commentator
Will.i.am - Musician (Black Eyed Peas)
Ryan Gosling - Actor
Michael Weatherly - Actor
Pete Davidson - Comedian and actor
Justin Paul - Composer and songwriter
Blake Anderson - Actor and comedian
Brian Baumgartner - Actor (The Office)
Chris Rock - Comedian and actor
Jason Mraz - Musician
Autistic Role Models
Lionel Messi - soccer player
Eminem - Rapper
Sia - Singer
Wentworth Miller - Actor
Jerry Seinfeld - Comedian
Temple Grandin - Author and autism advocate
Dan Aykroyd - Actor and comedian
Daryl Hannah - Actress
Susan Boyle - Singer
Courtney Love - Musician and actress
Satoshi Tajiri - Creator of Pokémon
Anthony Hopkins - Actor
Chris Packham - Naturalist and TV presenter
Heather Kuzmich - Model and contestant on "America's Next Top Model"
Paddy Considine - Actor and filmmaker
Clay Marzo - Professional surfer
Gary Numan - Musician
Vernon L. Smith - Nobel laureate in economics
Craig Nicholls - Musician (The Vines)
Luke Jackson - Author and autism advocate
John Elder Robison - Author and autism advocate
Leslie Lemke - Pianist
Tim Ellis - Magician
Jerry Newport - Author and motivational speaker
Daniel Tammet - Author and mathematical savant
Derek Paravicini - Musician and savant
James Durbin - Singer and finalist on "American Idol"
Ari Ne'eman - Autism rights advocate
Alex Plank - Founder of Wrong Planet, an online autism community
Greta Thunberg - Environmental activist
Tim Burton - Filmmaker
Chris Benoit - Former professional wrestler
Matt Savage - Jazz pianist and composer
Jonathan Chase - Actor